Jade Cargill has had enough of staying quiet. The WWE Women’s Champion addressed the constant online backlash and the way her words are routinely twisted on social media during an appearance on The Joe Budden Podcast, delivering one of her most candid and direct statements yet about how she handles criticism — and why she believes it keeps coming.
Cargill opened by acknowledging that even the most composed person has limits. “Everybody has two sides. If you keep knocking at somebody, though, they’re going to answer. They’re going to answer that door — but sometimes you’re knocking too hard. Why are you knocking at the door so hard?” She then identified social media — specifically Twitter — as the engine driving misrepresentation of her actual words. “Something I said, let’s just say we’re talking about Rhea — they’re going to take something out of context and say, ‘Jade said this,’ and then people just run with it instead of looking at the whole thing of what I said and putting her over and saying that she’s great. That’s just Twitter when it comes to wrestling.”
Jade Cargill Says Society Tells Women to Be Confident “But Not Too Confident” and She Refuses to Comply
Cargill expanded the conversation beyond wrestling, pushing back against the broader societal pressure on women — especially confident women — to dial themselves back. “Society tells you you can be confident, but not too confident — tone it down just a little bit. I’m not confident to where it’s arrogant. I know myself. I know what I’m capable of. You’re not going to tell me what I can do. You’re not going to tell me where I come from. You’re not going to tell me my freaking purpose. I refuse.” When the conversation turned to people suggesting her success came from outside help rather than her own work, Cargill shut it down immediately. “Well, you got this because of D. Okay, I’m blessed. I’m blessed. Like, what?” She closed with the line that best defines her entire approach to the backlash. “People try to shoot you down because of whatever demons they’re battling. Confidence intimidates people who are insecure with themselves.” Despite the negativity, Cargill framed her journey as one meant to inspire rather than divide. “I’m here to help you out. I want you to know — hey, you can do this too. I did it. Look where I came from — you can do this too.”
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